Neurodivergent Relationship Fundamentals : A Neuro-Affirming Guide to Strengthening Your Relationship

Neurodivergent Relationship Fundamentals is a warm, research-grounded, and deeply practical guide for couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent — autistic, ADHD, or AuDHD. Written by a Registered Psychotherapist specializing in neuro-affirming couples work, this book offers something that has been largely missing in the relationship literature: an honest, compassionate, and clinically informed account of what it actually looks and feels like to love someone whose brain works differently from the neurotypical norm — and what both partners can do to build something strong, honest, and genuinely sustainable.The book is organized in ten chapters, moving from foundational neurological understanding through to practical relationship skill-building. It draws on Gottman Method couples research, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and a substantial body of neuroscience, all reinterpreted through a neuro-affirming lens. Throughout, real-world vignettes bring the concepts to life, and each chapter ends with a clear summary and actionable tools. Read more